#BEsociety August challenge – day 18

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18.  Is it easy for you to ask for help when you need it, or do you prefer to rely only on yourself? Why?

I don’t know why, but I do tend to find it hard to ask for help. Maybe it’s for fear of being seen as weak or incapable [of doing something] and I really don’t know where that had stemmed from.

It’s not as if I don’t have support system from my family and hubby as I do, I thick it may be more to do with me feeling helpless in needing help.

For example when I suffered the PND after Jack, I found it hard to ask for help then despite knowing that how I felt wasn’t normal, but I thought that by me asking for the help I was going to be seen as a failure or a bad mum.

Some trait that I need to change about myself, as I know it’s on to ask for help it’s letting go and actually asking that is the hard part for me.


Fee is a 35 year old mother of three, who has been on the blogging scene since 1996. Over the years she has tried to change her style but finds the personal diary effect to be her niche - there are not many of those around in the blogging world nowadays.

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